Sunday, October 20, 2013

Vale, Dorothy Lumley

This blog post is overdue by several weeks.

The truth is: I was too sad to write it. Some time ago, I blogged about my literary agent, Dorothy Lumley, known to her friends as Dot. You can find that original post here

 Dot became my agent in January 1991, almost 23 years ago. She died this month. She knew she was dying, but she went on working up to the last with extraordinary courage and stoical acceptance. Her last communication with me, about a business matter, was just a week before she died. 

Right now I feel as though I'm a boat without a rudder. She was my guide and my advisor for so long. When no one else seemed to have faith in my writing, she was there, confident that one day I would be published, telling me I had what it takes, that I wrote good stories. Rejection followed rejection but she never lost faith in me as a writer. It was her confidence that enabled me to keep trying. I often wonder whether I would have given up if it hadn't been for her. I owe her so much.

When she took me on I was living in Austria. And then in Tunisia. And then in Malaysia. And finally here in Australia. Whenever I was in Britain, I made a point of meeting up with her, but there weren't that many opportunities. How many over the years? Six, seven? Not enough. The last time my daughter drove me down from where we were staying in Cardiff to Torquay, where Dot lived. We had lunch together, and she wore a pashmina I had sent her as a present a year or so earlier; I was touched at the thoughtfulness of that courtesy.

In our last exchange of e-mails, she hinted that she didn't think she had that much longer. For that reason I sent her the first few pages of the proofs of my next book, The Lascar's Dagger.  I am so glad I did, because she didn't live long enough to see the book itself. It was just the title page, the maps, and then this, the dedication:





For my agent
Dorothy Lumley
to whom I owe more than I can possibly say


Vale, Dot. I'll miss you.

6 comments:

Jo said...

I am so sorry to hear this, you mentioned it briefly on FB. This is a nice tribute to her.

Kate Elliott said...

This is a lovely tribute, Glenda. Thanks for sharing it.

Justina Robson said...

I'm sorry for your loss, Glenda. As the others have said, this is a lovely tribute.

Kari Sperring said...

That is a lovely tribute: she sounds like a fine person. Much sympathy to you and to her family.

Katy-Rose Hotker said...

Dear Glenda,

You probably don't remember me from the class you taught one day at Katharine Susannah Prichard Writers' Centre in Perth... I was but a hopeful 16 year old writer. I am now 26, and am still yet to be published, but I have followed you from afar all this time. You told me my work was good enough, and that I had a chance, and I still hold onto that to this day, a decade later.

So, from a fan who has followed your journey and loved your stories, I just wanted to take a moment to share my condolences. Dorothy sounds like she was an incredible woman and agent, and this was a beautiful, moving tribute to her memory.

I know she would have appreciated the last pages you sent her. Showing just how much she meant to you.

I hope with time, your heart heals and finds peace. It's never easy losing a friend.

Sending my love from Nannup, WA xox

Glenda Larke said...

Thanks everyone...

And Katy, you may feel that time is passing you by. It is so tough to get published, and very few of us get a book out before we are thirty. (I was MUCH slower.) Keep trying! And remember that every word you write is perfecting your skills.